10 Designers Share How to Create the Perfect Bedroom Suite

Designing a bedroom sanctuary takes a carefully orchestrated mix of design pieces and day-to-night lighting

Elegant modern bedroom with a four-poster bed, stylish artwork on walls, large windows, and patterned rug.
Designers such as Mark Cunningham share their best suggestions for cultivating a dreamy main bedroom. Photo: Dana Meilijson

Entertaining spaces have traditionally received the greatest amount of design attention in the home, but now our private quarters are taking on a whole new level of importance. Bedrooms are being transformed into high-design home sanctuaries, with furnishings selected not only to offer a good night’s sleep but also to serve as calming cocoons for escape.

Tucked away from prying eyes, primary suites naturally allow for the ultimate freedom of self-expression. “Bedrooms are inherently very intimate and autobiographical,” says designer Jeffrey Bilhuber, who is known for his imaginatively layered interiors adored by an equally confident client list. “They tell you very much about who’s at home.” Designers may vary considerably on what truly belongs in a bedroom, but virtually everyone agrees that this is the one place you can savor every last detail.

Elegant bedroom with a white canopy bed, blue bedding, patterned wallpaper, wooden dresser, and arched window with curtains.
A towering canopy provides an architectural focal point in a room conceived by Bunny Williams in Palm Beach. Photo: FRANCESCO LAGNESE

Furniture

A bed is obviously the defining piece of furniture in a bedroom, but the shape and style are open to interpretation. Choosing a canopy or four-poster frame can add architecture, says designer Bunny Williams. “It’s really a scale thing for me, and that’s why I love them,” she says. “The accentuation of height is wonderful. And the more you drape the bed, the more traditional it becomes.”

Other designers find appeal in an upholstered headboard, which can be customized in infinite shapes and fabric styles. “I love the diversity and flexibility,” says Sig Bergamin, who released his latest book, Art Life (Assouline), in November. “They add visual interest and they also bring comfort, which is essential for any bedroom.” Andre Mellone, founder of Studio Mellone, also favors an upholstered headboard but with a modern twist. “We will do an entire wall that’s covered in upholstery,” he says. “Then this de facto headboard acts as an architectural feature.” Where the bed is situated is just as critical as its design. “I often ask my clients to sit on a chair or the floor to decide what view or angle is most appealing to them in the day and at night,” says New York designer Julie Hillman.

“I want the biggest bedside table I can have because half my life is there.”

Bunny Williams

Bedside tables also provide a necessary function for the accoutrements of life, whether that’s a clock and a phone charger, or reading lamps and the latest bestseller. “I want the biggest bedside table I can have because half my life is there, but if you don’t have the wall space, then you need something that has tiered shelves,” suggests Williams. “All bedside tables should have drawers.”

Modern bedroom with teal headboard, wooden bedside table, decorative vases, and colorful wall art above bed.
A work by Masatake Kozaki and a custom upholstered headboard set the mood in this sumptuous bedroom suite designed by Andre Mellone. Photo: Stephen Kent Johnson

Textiles

No room in the home is as tactile as the bedroom, and the mix of textiles, including rugs, curtains, and bedding, is of utmost importance. “Having a calm, safe space is key for a room that you sleep in,” says London-based Beata Heuman, “but we also like adding surreal elements or dreamlike color combinations to create the feeling of being in another world.” Architect William T. Georgis pays special attention to rugs, favoring silk or wool-silk blends. “People are often barefoot and want all of the materials to have a fine hand, and that extends down to the carpet,” says the designer, who then adds textural contrast with accessories like rough woven-cashmere throws.

“Having a calm, safe space is key for a room that you sleep in”

Beata Heuman

Cozy bedroom with large bed, warm-toned curtains, art on walls, soft lighting, and elegant wooden furniture.
A custom-monogrammed bedding set completes a New Orleans bedroom by Bill Brockschmidt and Courtney Coleman. Photo: PAUL COSTELLO

Fabric wall coverings can also remarkably transform a home. In a New Orleans carriage house, Bill Brockschmidt and Courtney Coleman created custom upholstered panels to cover a room’s exposed brick walls. “People want to be surrounded by these beautiful fabrics,” says Coleman. “It’s gratifying to know they love it as much as we do.” And, of course, bedding offers a world of textile possibilities. Bilhuber adores Julia B. sheets atop a Saatva mattress, and Hillman suggests a Hästens bed with pieces from E. Braun & Co., while Brockschmidt and Coleman find customizing styles from Leontine Linens with a color-matching monogram to be an elegant touch.

Elegant bedroom with abstract art, large windows, a cozy armchair, plush bedding, and a modern chandelier.
A Christopher Wool painting and a vintage bronze and alabaster chandelier by Albert Cheuret illuminate a serene Julie Hillman–designed bedroom suite. Photo: MANOLO YLLERA

Lighting

A bedroom functions differently depending on the time of day, and a carefully orchestrated lighting design enhances the space’s many uses. Window treatments create another moment for texture and pattern, but there’s a significant functionality that needs to be considered. Some clients can’t sleep without blackout curtains; sheers offer privacy while letting sunlight stream into a space. “There’s nothing better than natural light in a home,” says Hillman. “I personally love to wake up to sunlight.”

Modern bedroom with a four-poster bed, patterned rug, wall art, and large windows with curtains.
A custom Merida rug defines the vibe and palette of this bedroom Mark Cunningham created in a New York duplex. Photo: Dana Meilijson

Overhead lighting, such as a sculptural chandelier, can add a dynamic element, but designer Mark Cunningham relies on multiple sources. In a New York duplex apartment, for example, he balanced the daylight from floor-to-ceiling windows with floor and table lamps for nighttime illumination. “There’s a number of low lamps so it continues the warmth as opposed to a big, bright overhead,” he says. Williams carefully measures bed height to be sure bedside lighting is higher than the mattress, while Brockschmidt and Coleman are seeing more clients asking for a luxury commonly found in hotel suites and first-class airline seating—the LED reading light on an extendible arm. And with that perfect mix of function and design comes the sweetest dreams.

A version of this article first appeared in print in our 2020 Winter issue under the headline “Bedtime Stories.” Subscribe to the magazine.

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These Exceptional Furnishings Will Elevate Any Bedroom Suite

Allure king bed by Baker.

Photograph by Courtesy of Baker Furniture

Finn bed by Studio Van den Akker from De Sousa Hughes.

Photograph by COURTESY OF STUDIO VAN DEN AKKER

Savoir x Dashing Tweeds bed in Raver Wave Yellow.

Photograph by COURTESY OF SAVOIR

Cambrio bench by Jonathan Charles Fine Furniture.u00a0

Photograph by COURTESY OF JONATHAN CHARLES FINE FURNITURE

Hines bench by Alexa Hampton for Theodore Alexander.u00a0

Photograph by COURTESY OF THEODORE ALEXANDER

Visby Calcutta Pepper bench by Currey & Company.u00a0

Photograph by COURTESY OF CURREY & COMPANY

Alene nightstand by Made Goods.

Photograph by Courtesy of Made Goods

Shifty side table by Holly Hunt Studio.

Photograph by Courtesy of Holly Hunt

Silvyu2019s dressing table by Julian Chichester.

Photograph by COURTESY OF JULIAN CHICHESTER

Meneo bedside table by Armani Casa.

Photograph by COURTESY OF GIORGIO ARMANI

Woodblock Giraffe fabric from the Aerin Collection for the Shade Store.

Photograph by COURTESY OF THE SHADE STORE

Cashmere blanket by Hermu00e8s.

Photograph by COURTESY OF HERMÈS

Cashmere wool twill cushion by de Le Cuona.

Photograph by COURTESY OF DE LE CUONA

Distressed Moroccan rug by Marc Phillips.u00a0

Photograph by COURTESY OF MARC PHILLIPS

Anjou table lamp by Jonathan Browning Studios.

Photograph by DAVID BISHOP

Paola wall light in Blu Avio by Hector Finch.

Photograph by COURTESY OF HECTOR FINCH

Japonesque Bonsai lamp by Magni Home Collection.

Photograph by NATALIA KNEZEVIC

Table lamp by John Wigmore from Ralph Pucci.u00a0

Photograph by COURTESY OF RALPH PUCCI

Mandeville sconce by Julie Neill for Circa Lighting.

Photograph by COURTESY OF CIRCA LIGHTING
Modern canopy bed with gold frame and beige headboard, complete with white sheets and pillows.
Wooden bed with a unique slatted design, white bedding, and decorative pillows, viewed from the side angle.
Green upholstered bed with white bedding and pillows against a light background.
Beige upholstered ottoman with storage space and wooden legs on a white background.
Teal tufted leather bench with wooden legs and brass casters.
Wooden bench with beige upholstered seat and gold accents on legs.
Green mid-century modern nightstand with two drawers and wooden legs on a white background.
Modern round wooden side table with geometric base design.
Teal vanity table with foldable mirror and two drawers on a white background.
Modern wooden side table with curved edges and a small shelf under the tabletop, against a plain background.
Four patterned napkins in gradient colors from golden to dark grey, arranged neatly on a white surface.
Colorful checkered woven blanket with fringes, featuring a mix of blue, yellow, and other colors, neatly folded on a white background.
Beige textured throw pillow with vertical stitched patterns on the left side, against a white background.
Abstract multicolored woven tapestry featuring geometric and abstract shapes in various hues of brown, blue, and beige.
Gold table lamp with a textured geometric base and a large white lampshade.
Gold wall-mounted lamp with blue glass globe shade and exposed bulb.
Modern table lamp with three rectangular beige shades on a wooden base, featuring a unique geometric design.
Rectangular table lamp with a pink and white ceramic base and a large white rectangular fabric shade on a gray surface.
Gold leaf wall sconce with two exposed bulbs and intricate branch design.
Modern canopy bed with gold frame and beige headboard, complete with white sheets and pillows.
Wooden bed with a unique slatted design, white bedding, and decorative pillows, viewed from the side angle.
Green upholstered bed with white bedding and pillows against a light background.
Beige upholstered ottoman with storage space and wooden legs on a white background.
Teal tufted leather bench with wooden legs and brass casters.
Wooden bench with beige upholstered seat and gold accents on legs.
Green mid-century modern nightstand with two drawers and wooden legs on a white background.
Modern round wooden side table with geometric base design.
Teal vanity table with foldable mirror and two drawers on a white background.
Modern wooden side table with curved edges and a small shelf under the tabletop, against a plain background.
Four patterned napkins in gradient colors from golden to dark grey, arranged neatly on a white surface.
Colorful checkered woven blanket with fringes, featuring a mix of blue, yellow, and other colors, neatly folded on a white background.
Beige textured throw pillow with vertical stitched patterns on the left side, against a white background.
Abstract multicolored woven tapestry featuring geometric and abstract shapes in various hues of brown, blue, and beige.
Gold table lamp with a textured geometric base and a large white lampshade.
Gold wall-mounted lamp with blue glass globe shade and exposed bulb.
Modern table lamp with three rectangular beige shades on a wooden base, featuring a unique geometric design.
Rectangular table lamp with a pink and white ceramic base and a large white rectangular fabric shade on a gray surface.
Gold leaf wall sconce with two exposed bulbs and intricate branch design.